This is a quote from the book "The Virtue Of Selfishness" by Ayn Rand
... desire for pleasure is the desire to escape from reality.
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Now consider the sphere of recreation. For instance, a party. A rational man enjoys a party as an emotional reward for ac
hievement, and he can enjoy it only if in fact it involves activities that are enjoyable, such as seeing people whom he likes, meeting new people whom he finds interesting, engaging in conversat
ions in which something worth saying and hearing is being said and heard. But a neurotic can “enjoy” a party for reasons unrelated to the real activities taking place; he may hate or despise...