This is a quote from the book "The Virtue Of Selfishness" by Ayn Rand
...ason that life without the loved person could be unbearable.
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Conversely, if a man is able to swim and to save his drowning wife, but becomes panicky, gives in to an unjustified, ir
rational fear and lets her drown, then spends his life in loneliness and misery — one would not call him “selfish”; one would condemn him morally for his treason to himself and to his own
values, that is: his failure to fight for the preservation of a value crucial to his own happiness. Remember that values are that which one acts to gain and/or keep, and that one’s own happine...