This is a quote from the book "The Virtue Of Selfishness" by Ayn Rand
...tructure; the neurotic does not value things according to their objective merit, in relation to his nature and needs; he frequently values the very things that will lead him to self-destruction.
Judged by objective standards, he is engaged in a chronic process of self-sacrifice.
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But if sacrifice is a virtue, it is not the neurotic but the rational man who must be “cured
.” He must leam to do violence to his own rational judgment — to reverse the order of his value hierarchy — to surrender that which his mind has chosen as the good — to turn against and ...