This is a quote from the book "The Virtue Of Selfishness" by Ayn Rand
...e kind of soul; if, instead, he is attracted to an irresponsible, helpless scatterbrain, whose weakness enables him to feel masculine, he reveals another kind of soul; if he is attracted to a fr
ightened slut, whose lack of judgment and standards allows him to feel free of reproach, he reveals another kind of soul.
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The same principle, of course, applies to a woman’s roma
The sexual act has a different meaning for the person whose desire is fed by pride and admiration, to whom the pleasurable self-experience it affords is an end...